Archive for January, 2006

Another Birthday in the family!!

Today was my nephew’s Birthday; he turned 5!

He called my mother two days ago and asked her to deliver a message to me and my sister; the message was that we should buy him gifts from a certain store and he should be there to choose the gift, brilliant ha?

So yesterday, we went to a kids store in Jebal Amman called Ali Baba; they have all costumes you can think of; Spiderman, Superman, Batman, etc. and a whole lot of toys and games.

He asked to get him a Spiderman scooter and that is exactly what I did. My sister got him an educational toy laptop according to his own request; and he told me that he wanted this specific gift because he likes my laptop!!

We threw him a nice party tonight and as usual; I would love to share the joy with the entire blogosphere; so there you go!

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Homemade Trifill

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Custard

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Happy Birthday Sign

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Part of the decorations

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Homemade Fruit Salad

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Nice Black Forest

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Birthday Boy (3ahed) holding a gift

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I asked him about his age and that was his answer

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He is happy with the scooter

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Enjoying another gift

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And another

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Posted on Tuesday, January 31st, 2006
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Arabic Entry: شجرة تناجي المطر

انقضى كانون وأنا ما زلت منتظرة بشائرك … تكاد الريح أن تقتلع أغصاني المتخشبة … هجرتني أوراقي منذ زمن يكاد يكون بعيداً … وأنا ما زلت أحلم بالأثواب التي ستسبغها عليّ عند عودتك … فمتى تعود؟

Tree

منذ سالف العصور … اعتدت على زيارتك في أوقات محددة … واعتدت أن أحضّر نفسي لزيارتك السنوية الجميلة … وبكل فرح وبشاشة … أتأمل مجيئك عند طلوع النهار وعند نزول الليل … فما الذي أخّرك عني هذا العام؟

هل أنت غاضب مني؟

هل فعلت ما ضايقك ودفعك إلى هجراني؟

إن وحدتي المؤلمة تكاد تقتلعني من مكاني … فأحاول أن أمد جذوري في أعماق الأرض … لأجدها حزينة مثلي … تشكو لي غيبتك وبعدك عنها …

عد إلينا … فليس أجمل من قطراتك وهي تداعب جذعي وأغصاني … لتعيد الحياة إليها … وهل هناك أجمل من الوريقات الخضراء إذ تصحو من غفوتها لتفرد ثوباً موشحاً بالأزهار والثمار … وتلوّن طبيعة افتقدت كل الألوان في غيابك … فهلاّ تعود يا رفيق الدرب؟

إني حزينة … لأني لا أعرف إن كنت تسمع مناجاتي … فأنا أحتاج إليك … وأخشى أنك حين تعود … لن تجد مني سوى بقايا … ذبلت وماتت مع كل يوم يأفل ولا تطلّ فيه …

إيه أيها المطر … لا تكن قاسياً … وكن رحيم القلب كما عرفتك … وبالرغم من غيبتك التي طالت … سأنتظر حتى الرمق الأخير … ولن أفقد الأمل في أن تكون لا زلت محتفظاً بحنانك وشوقك إلينا … ولفرحة العودة ...

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Posted on Tuesday, January 31st, 2006
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When a kind gesture turns into a nightmare!!

There is a big difference between acts of kindness and complete ignorance, and when we are blinded by our emotions, logic and common sense usually take a back seat and as a result; sad and tragic consequences are in order.

As I was browsing through the famous Arabic magazine; Zahrat Al Khaleej, I came across an article reporting two tragedies that took place in Jordan; specifically in Al Koorah.

The two separate incidents are about two families that were shattered by someone finally speaking and telling the truth.

After 24 years of marriage that resulted in 9 sons and daughters; Mohammed discovered that his wife is banned to him because he was breast fed by his grandfather’s wife, and in a complicated chain of relations, he discovered that he married the granddaughter of his brother, and when the case was tried by the court, the ruling came horrifying to the whole family and they got a divorce right away.

In less than 60 days and in the same area; another case emerges and Ibrahim discovered that the breast feeding syndrome turned him into his wife’s uncle, and again the court ruled that this marriage cannot continue.

Is it ignorance or stupidity? What is the fate of the sons and daughters who discovered after all these years that they were living a lie? How can this happen? And the more important question; is this still happening? If a new mother is sick and cannot breastfeed her child, are people still seeking other nursing mothers to compensate for the lack of breast milk?

I understand that in ancient times, when there was no powder milk or liquid milk on the shelves of any pharmacy or supermarket, that the need might arise for a substitute mother to step in and save the newborn, but when we have all the facilities and products to compensate and provide the child with a healthy beginning; why do we still go to extreme measures and risk future incidents like these to take place and wreck calm lives?

Let me go with the idea, and assume that this already happened; shouldn’t there be witnesses to declare that this marriage is not allowed before it takes place?

I can’t believe that we still have such tragedies. Whose responsibility is this? I suggest that with each blood test people take to check if they are compatible for marriage, they should check their histories as well to double check that the guy is not marrying his sister, aunt, niece, etc.

It sounds like an Indian movie, but it is tragically true and some people are suffering from the consequences!!

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Posted on Monday, January 30th, 2006
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Boycott Shmoycott … Enough Already!!!

When and where does this charade stop?

What does it take to make us think before we act? Why do we always tend to drag ourselves into the most stupid situations? And then we start whining how the west is marking us for stupid and primitive.

Despite all the effort that we do to build our personalities, despite all the education that we get, despite all the reading and knowledge, despite all the travel and exposure to the world, we still let ourselves slip and go with the flow of the masses.

Every time something or anything happens, make sure that we are going to boycott something because that’s what we are perfect at, boycotting.

I am telling you, we are so good at it; no we even mastered the art. Let me tell you, we start campaigns, we bombard people with emails, we announce the brands that will be included in the boycott, and we keep insisting and persisting till we get what we want and you better be careful mister as we are boycotting these days!!!

When does this stop for God’s sake? When do we stop acting like a clan of anger and pure grudges? When do we start thinking and proving to the whole world that we are indeed civilized?

Instead; we continue to mark ourselves as the 3rd world people who will never ever reach global standards.

For God’s sake; stop all this nonsense about boycotting whatever brand, as this is not the way to make your voice heard, and please stop spamming us over and over with the brands that we should stop consuming. Did I say should? Well, says who? And what is the benefit? How are we affecting anyone by boycotting? Think again or better yet start thinking.

Boycotting shmoycotting; well enough already with the dark ages techniques!!!!!!

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Posted on Monday, January 30th, 2006
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Kuwait ya Kuwait …

A couple of weeks ago I was doing some searches over the net and I came across a blog of a Kuwaiti fellow blogger. As I was browsing through the posts on that blog, I came across one that left me very disturbed and preoccupied with its content that as a patriot Jordanian, I had to comment and seek permission to link to his post and get my fellow Jordanian bloggers to participate, so here I am seeking your kind assistance.

To cut a long story short; the Kuwaiti newspaper Al Watan has announced on the 8th of December 2005 that Kuwaiti students in Jordan are under attack, and that this is a series of incidents that have been taking place for some time; please read the piece of news here.

The Kuwaiti blogger UzF was moved and disturbed by the news that he understandably blogged about it.

I do not know whether this piece of news is true or not as this is not the reason I am blogging about this; my main concern is the amount of hostility I got towards Jordan and Jordanians by reading the comments on that specific post, which you can get here.

I am seeking your kind assistance to show our Kuwaiti brothers and sisters that there is no hidden agenda against Kuwait or Kuwaitis and that we as Jordanians share their annoyance and anger from these incidents if they ever took place and that we condemn such acts, and as I commented to him that we think highly of Kuwait and Kuwaitis and this is by no means a reflection of our country, or our people.

I will be informing our fellow Kuwaiti blogger about this post and I hope that our responses will urge him to reflect this in a new post on his blog so that his readers can learn the truth.

Last but not least; thank you in advance for participating in this initiative; I look forward to getting your responses and feedback.

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Posted on Sunday, January 29th, 2006
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Makeup, yea or nay!

This obsession that has well known brands to continuously introduce new products and race to be the first to get it out in the markets before others.

The first evidence of using makeup goes all the way back in history to ancient Egyptians around 4000 BC, and there are also some records of Greeks and Romans using it. In 1800’s, Queen Victoria publicly declared makeup as impolite. In the World War II era, though makeup was used casually in the west; it was still banned in Germany.

Geishas in Japan were very innovative when it became to the ingredients they used to mix their own makeup. For instance; they used crushed safflower petals to make lipstick, and they used wax for the makeup base and then added paste and powder to get the peculiar white color that characterized geishas.

Nowadays; the market is dominated by a few big names including but not limited to L’Oreal, Revlon, Christian Dior, Lancôme, Max Factor, Estee Lauder, Elizabeth Arden, Helena Rubinstein and many others.

The main purpose for wearing makeup is to make the wearer look more attractive, but when does it become too much?

There is a very fine line between attractive and quite the opposite, and what we are witnessing these days is the opposite. Some women turned wearing makeup into a task that takes more than it should from their daily routine, so they wear it in the morning adding a bit too much of everything, and then many times during the day, they have to fix it or powder their noses, add lipstick as if there is a need to do that and work a bit on the eye shadow, eye liner, mascara, blusher, etc.

I used to wear makeup on daily basis some years ago, and then I lost the passion for it, and it became normal that I start my day au naturel, without a touch of a brush here or a color there; it just makes me feel more free and at ease as I go through my tough long day.

Don’t get me wrong; I like a touch of makeup every now and then, or even light makeup everyday, but when it becomes an obsession on its own, to the extent that a woman literally cannot step out of the house without wearing makeup. Some take it to a more extreme level by wearing lenses to change the color of their eyes, and with dying the hair and the revolution of botox and collagen; I have to wonder if what we are seeing is true! I mean; who are these ladies and what do they really look like? Sometimes I feel that they themselves do not recognize themselves without makeup, and it had become their permanent loyal companion. 

To me, makeup is a total yea until it becomes an obsession that turns people into unrecognizable creatures; then it becomes a complete nay all the way!

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Posted on Saturday, January 28th, 2006
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How I spent my Friday!!

Today was a very long day and we spent it making sweets we should have made before Eid. Yes, I am talking about Ka3k w Ma3mool!

My brother in law is leaving on Monday to the states to go back to his routine work life, and my sister decided to make some ka3k w ma3mool for him to take it with him for the family there. She asked me, my mother and my sisters for help and we gladly went to her place, helped her make them and got out with some nice sweets at the end of it.

I took the chance to capture some pictures while we were working and decided to share them with you, and no, my blog is not turning into a virtual cookbook … LOL!

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Starting with the crust

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Preparing the dates

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Dates and ka3k (cookies) before shaping

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Placing the date inside to crust to make ka3k (cookies)

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Ka3k placed in baking tray after shaping them

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Ka3k in the oven being baked

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Out of the oven, hot and yummy!!

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Another tray of Ma3mool with sugar on top

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No more teasing … this plate is going to Jeeran!!

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Posted on Friday, January 27th, 2006
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Knowing me through tagging me!!

I have been tagged, not for something I said, but for something I will say!

My dear friend Fadi tagged me and started a nice game that aims at bloggers getting to know each other better, read it here on Fadi’s post.

Rules of the game:

1-       Declare 5 facts about yourself

2-       State 3 things you like in others

3-       State 3 things you don’t like in others

4-       Tag 4 bloggers and comment on their blogs that they have been tagged and direct them to your post

Easy, ha?

Let me start by the 5 facts:

1-       I am so disorganized, but I have a good memory that saves me from ugly situation caused by my commotion and my chaos.

2-       I am moody; sometimes I switch from good mood to bad mood so quickly that no one notices.

3-       Love reading and I mean really love reading.

4-       I have a very lazy thyroid.

5-       I have a nice voice and love to sing.

3 things I like in others:

1-       Humbleness and humility.

2-       Honesty and straight forwardness.

3-       Simplicity.

3 things I don’t like in others:

1-       Lying.

2-       Arrogance.

3-       Sarcasm.

I tag:

OneDevotion, Tololy, Dar , Ramroom

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Posted on Thursday, January 26th, 2006
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Is my luck finally changing??

I really won something!!

I won a mobile device from Radio Fann FM and Mobilecom … YAY!!!!

Mobile

Update: I went to Radio Fann and they gave me a voucher … then I went to Mobilecom and got the device when surprise surprise … it comes with a line as well )

Pretty cool ha??


Thank you everyone for your comments and I got the black one (for ghaloosh)

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Posted on Wednesday, January 25th, 2006
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Do you believe in life after love??

Well, I do!!

Cher

I was just listening to this song by the great one and only; Cher.

It is true that we fall in love and probably out of love all the time, but what happens when you get your heart broken in the process?

Would you go like: Unbreak my heart? Or where do broken hearts go? Or would you go I am strong enough to live without you!!

Going through the experience myself; I went through the three phases. It started out with unbreak my heart, and progressed with where do broken hearts go, until I reached the point where I built my strength again and it was time for I am strong enough to live without you and I quit trying long enough … great song and so expressive; I just love Cher!!

I do believe that inside each of us there is a strong person that helps us bounce back and start all over again, and they used to say: no body dies of love.

It really takes a lot of courage to be in love and show it, and it takes even more strength to face everyone after breakup or a lost love, so if you went through this experience or are going through one now; dig up your internal hero and let him help you get over this phase; it’s time to move on.

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Posted on Wednesday, January 25th, 2006
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