When mean people rule!!!
It might be one of the saddest things in life to see the mean prevail, gloat and rub salt in the open wounds; it makes me want to scream or hit anything when I witness such injustice and inhumanity.
Mean people have no feelings, they are self centered and care only for themselves. They always await the opportunity when they can hunt the prey and make it sorry for the day it was born. They sit in silence for a long time, watching from a hidden place, showing you only the nice face and decorated conversations, they befriend you and give you a false feeling of safety, and just when you feel secure and warm; that is when they sting and hit you so hard from where you have never anticipated.
Mean people do not care about blood relations, they do not care about friendships or business relations; to them; the end always justifies the mean (method); that alone is a dangerous behavior in any community.
I don’t believe that mean people become so during the course of their lives and from what they learn from their surroundings, some of this characteristic has to be inherited; at least the tendency to be like that if and when they give up to the temptation. What they face in their lives increases the desire to become insensitive and cruel.
I saw many models; I witnessed a large number of encounters with mean people, I heard so many stories about people getting into trouble because of this behavior, yet; it never becomes normal or casual, it always hits me like lightening that humans are capable of such cruelty and insensitivity.
The worst of the worst; is when you see a father getting abused by a mean son or daughter, a mother being dumped in a house for the elder by her son because his wife does not want his mom to mess the house, spouses getting revenge because they reached a dead end and the divorce is inevitable, brothers and sisters going through law suits because of money or land … etc.
When is this going to stop? I need help here; how do you react when you witness something this sore and this ugly? How can you tell the mean he is mean? How can you help the hurt without making them feel that you pity them for their weakness? How can you see all this and stay quiet?
Today was one of these days when I saw something and I really did not know what to do or say … someone was so mean that I could not stick around and had to come home and vent here; hoping it will make me feel better!!
September 18th, 2006 at 1:23 pm
mean ppl suck! and there are soo many many of them.. they are taking over the world…
some are mean and 2 faced at teh same time
2 in 1
September 18th, 2006 at 1:40 pm
I second that notion.
Mean people suck and, unfortunately, mean people who are capable of projecting a phony air of niceness as needed tend to rise to the top.
It is up to the nicer people of the world to look carefully at those who we might promote or grant authority to and ensure that we aren’t providing breaks to such assholes.
September 18th, 2006 at 6:26 pm
i tend to be mean sometimes, sometimes u need to be mean
September 18th, 2006 at 11:40 pm
waaaaaaaal ya khokha 3njad iam praying for god to help me not being mean!! b3dain bamoot!
September 19th, 2006 at 12:26 am
Hi Khalidahh..
OH MY GOD… yes mean people are just ya3!!! beddek el sara7a.. sometimes I feel i can be very mean!! but I try to stop myself
Note: Mean people live MUCH MUCH longer than good ones… just to spread their meaniness and make others suffer!!!
September 19th, 2006 at 5:41 am
Well, i dont think this well stop. But the best thing to do when you face such people is to smile and thank god your not like that
September 19th, 2006 at 9:21 am
Khalidah, not to defend anyone, but you’re talking about these people as if they are a different species. I don’t think that is the case. They’re just like everyone, and I am a true believer that the surroundings usually push them in that direction. Inherited you say? Some of the MEANEST people I’ve ever met had the sweetest most lovable parents. So I doubt that too.
Anyway, It sucks to be mean….The choice is ours, we can be forgiving and tolerant, or be bitter and mean
Sad thing though, mean people always prevail…. Nice guys finish last
September 19th, 2006 at 1:05 pm
Asalam 3alaykom,
khalidah..mean people always prevail..the sadest thing is when someone doesn’t see it even when they are actually bleeding from hurt..
Mean people don’t show at first..they justify and act kind..but they are cold hearted snakes..
allah yeb3ed 3ana welad el7aram!!
September 25th, 2006 at 5:30 pm
I lapped up the article. It’s so true and unfortunately their tribe is on an exponential growth.
And another strange phenomenon is that – people see mean people being mean to others but choose to trust them so long as they are not mean unto them. We are all such suckers for their games!