I’m not gonna comment on the points number 1 to 9 because it will be an endless argument, but I’m gonna say one thing, a lot Arab men are not like what you have mentioned. The type of men you have mentioned are non-religious and who are of a bad character, no God fearing man would ever mistreat his wife.

For the 10th point you have mentioned: “- Arab men have an EGO and ATTITUDE problems: they have the “I am the MAN” syndrome, they are afraid of successful women” I’m gonna not deny the fact that there are men who have ego; this does not apply to ONLY Arab men, but rather men in general. Usually men wanna marry someone of an equal or lower status because of their ego and women wanna marry someone who’s of an equal or higher status because women look down on men who are of a lower status then them. I’m currently looking for a wife right now, I want to marry someone educated and career oriented not because of her wealth that’s none of my business, but rather because a truly educated person is a person who has a career, because life experience teaches a lot more then university does. I sat down with quite a few Arab girls who are educated and career oriented, but they all said that “my career is my career and I would never let go of it no matter what” this is when I got afraid of successful women (only in her career not her deen), afraid in a sense that they’re not wife material, they will put their career before their marriage. They want to be career women who just so happened to be married, they’re not willing to be wives to their husbands, nor mothers to their children. I want to marry someone who is competent and mature enough to balance between her career and her marriage. Insha’Allah when I get married I’m gonna fulfill my responsibilities as a husband and I expect my wife to do the same in return. Those educated and career oriented Arab girls MUST understand that marriage is a responsibility in itself. It’s been two years right now that I’m looking for a religious yet at the same time educated and career oriented Arab girl and it doesn’t look good. So tell me blog, will I ever find a God fearing, educated and career oriented Arab girl? Will I ever find an educated and career oriented Arab girl who going to say “I want to stay home for the next few years to raise the kids because I’m their mother”?………………. Allah yostor

My sincere advice to women who want to marry an Arab man is NEVER DO THAT. If you are a Muslim then find yourself a nice convert. If you’re not , then believe me life with an Arab guy will make your life hellish.

I dated an Arab guy here in Asia. I fell in love with him right away for being so respectful, conservative, and for treating me like a “princess”. You are right in #3 “he wants to go out every night of the week and say absolutely nothing when he comes back after midnight and receive him with hugs and kisses because he is the man of the house. “.

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That I didn’t like.
Girls don’t like that, do we? I think it’s just right for your partner to know your where abouts!

#5, Arab men do not know how to make love: no comment!! … Sorry!!

Comment: May not know how to make love but they know how to have sex. I was just unfortunate that I came across an arab guy who’s good in bed.

#7 “you do not get to boss her around and not expect her to say anything, you must not expect her to live without a personality and see the world through your eyes, you do not expect her to obey you when you do not give her the time of the day. If the marriage contract is an ownership; then you both own each other!! “

Comment: I love this line, it’s so true that there’s no need for me to share my part of the story.

#8, “they have lady friends and sometimes even girlfriends and she is supposed to respect them enough not to communicate with other men even if at work, they complain all the time about their “nekadieyeh wife” and they don’t even look at the reasons why she is being this way. They live a full life before marriage and have sex with lots of women but when it comes to their own woman; she has to pristine with a chaste past. “

Comment: It’s okay for them to date, talk dirty with someone else as long as they don’t get caught. (Base on experience)

I was wishing he would ask me to marry him, but thanks to your post. It gave me another perspective of him. Cause base on my experience with this guy, you are making sense. And you put some sense on my head.

Thanks!