Archive for November, 2006

Jordan Planet Meet-up on the 30th

The Jordan Planet November meet-up will be held on Thursday the 30th of November, 2006, at 6:00 o’clock, in Old View Cafe in Jabal Amman.

Like usual, anyone is more than welcome to come.

Old View Cafe Directions:

Keep going down Rainbow Street after the First Circle, and take the right turn right before the last. Old View cafe is on the same street as Books@Cafe, a little before it on the other side.

If you want other directions, give them a call at 06-5310380.

Posted on Wednesday, November 22nd, 2006
Under: Fellow Bloggers, Jordan, Jordan Planet | 4 Comments »

Tribute to my friends!!

My Mind has a new header and I have to thank my friends for it …

Omar was kind enough to create this nice header for me; I am really amazed how creative this guy is and not only because of my header; we have all seen some of his work and I know that you agree … thank you Omar for this; I really love my new header and avatar, but since gravatar site is down for maintenance, it will be some time before you can see that lovely avatar in action )

Also, Bakkouz assisted me in uploading this header on my CSS because I am not a CSS pr PHP expert and I am always lost in the jargon; thank you Bakkouz … I appreciate your help wallah )

My Wasta with Omar was my lovely vivacious friend Amino, she helped him out and they did not tell me they were preparing a header for me until it was finished and ready to use … Thank you Amino!! ) and MMuuuuaaaahhh

And how can I forget my best friend Jad; he was the one who set up this WP blog when I first moved and he edited the CSS and sidebars and everything; Thank you so much Jad … you really came to my rescue when I mostly needed it )

If you cannot see the header, CTRL + Refresh and hopefully you will

What do you think?

Posted on Monday, November 20th, 2006
Under: Fellow Bloggers, Friends, General, Pictures | 16 Comments »

ikbis ikbis … I am addicted!!

Ok! This is weird for real … I am actually coming back every day to see what happened with “ikbis” campaign and what strangely cute character is there … what will happen when we reach the end of the campaign? please keep ikbis-ing with us to find out what is behind these interesting creature .. ermmm sorry .. characters D

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Posted on Sunday, November 19th, 2006
Under: Fellow Bloggers, Funny, Inspiring, Interesting, Jordan, toot | 8 Comments »

America’s Deadliest Wars … Who is Behind Them?

I hope you remember the time I posted the summarized history lesson about the Middle East and who controlled it, because the site from which I got that lesson has led me to another interesting one … just take a look at the below flash movie … It seems they were always in a state of war or maybe I should say: unnecessary war most of the time!!!

Enjoy!!

Find more interesting maps on this brilliant site!!!

Posted on Saturday, November 18th, 2006
Under: Around the World, General, Interesting | 3 Comments »

My Mind is One Year Old!!!

Exactly one year ago, I started my blog (Mind) …

Happy Birthday Mind!!

At the time; I had known about blogging for some time and was interested in the whole idea; I read a lot about the concept and visited some blogs that interested me with their content and variety.

Being a person who likes to speak her mind, I decided that this was the perfect name for my blog, as I believe it to be a reflection of my inner thoughts and some of the things that take place in my daily life. Sometimes I talk about events in the family or with friends, other times I talk about my convictions regarding certain issues that concern women mostly.

I have enjoyed readers who keep coming to my blog and it is because of them that I continue to write, because they hear my voice and my thoughts. Debates with them are among the most enjoyable things I do and I love their comments even if they did not agree with me at times; they have the right to express their ideas as much as I do and I tell everyone; feel free to express your ideas as long as it is not under the personal attack context becauase that is the only thing that I do not tolerate )

I hope you have enjoyed the ride as much as I did and I hope that you will keep coming back for some bits and pieces of my MIND!!!

Happy Birthday My Mind )

Posted on Thursday, November 16th, 2006
Under: Days of my Life, Experiences, Fellow Bloggers, Friends, General, My Life, Thoughts on my mind | 12 Comments »

Downtown; one more time!

Going downtown is an experience worth talking about every time you do it; it is unique and special in a totally different way than anything else. The noise, the smells, the people and everything about the shops and streets there is different and peculiar.

I really was not planning this trip and it came out of the blue; mom wanted to buy a few things and my sister said she would love to go with her; so they came to me to give them a ride; now how can I refuse something like that? Can I?

So we went downtown and I parked my car in the old parking lot, and we started our trip on foot. The first place I visited was Abu Ali’s kiosk for great books and spent some good 20 minutes with this great man, took his advice about books to read and bought me a nice collection that I will write about in another post. He gave some of the translated books and was so happy when I told him that I read them in English; he said he is proud of all of the young educated people who keep seeking knowledge any way they can, and he agreed that I take a photo of him and post it on my blog )

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Then we went to a falafel restaurant downtown called Fuad; it is one of the oldest and most well known and it is really good. There was this place that sells cassettes full of songs you will only hear in busses, service cars or cabs; I got me a couple of those just for the sake of it!!

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My sister wanted to buy some cosmetics and that was our next station; there is an excellent place in Basman street called “3alam Al 3o6oor”, they have everything a woman can ask for, and we got ourselves some nice things including the latest eye shade colors among other stuff.

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Mom wanted to buy some fabrics and that was our next station; we got some nice material and colors for a very good price and then we needed some stuff from Bukhareyeh and that’s where we headed. You can never be bored in this place, with all the things hanging above your head and calling for you to come explore and buy. I can never get over how attractive these things look even if they are placed randomly and on top of each other.

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Downtown Amman is full of different flavors and originality; it is a trip that you take and despite the exhaustion you feel at the end of the day; you always want to go again and again; it is a joy that only those who love genuine and honest reflections of the place that has been there before we were even born and will hopefully continue to be there long after we are gone!!

Posted on Monday, November 13th, 2006
Under: Amman, Books, Days of my Life, Family, Interesting, Jordan, My Life, Pictures | 7 Comments »

Lest We Forget!!

Don’t forget what happened!!!

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More Importantly; don’t forget who did it!!!

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Posted on Wednesday, November 8th, 2006
Under: Community, Craziness, Jordan, Middle East | 6 Comments »

Begging Profession!!

To stand in front of a complete stranger and ask him/her to give you some money no matter how much is an act that needs a lot of guts or a lot of desperation. Whether one reached this stage because of old age or any kind of disability; it is still not easy to decide to go out there and ask people for help without knowing what to expect.

Sometimes; hardships of life forces some people to choose this path and we really cannot blame them for not being able to provide for themselves, and at the same time don’t have anyone to provide for them; there should be some institutions to take care of this sector and make sure that they live with dignity and pride instead of subject themselves to humiliation and insults from others.

On the other hand; there is a completely different type of beggars. It is those who chose to beg for a living and not out of necessity; it has become a profession that they pass from one generation to another.

Tonight as I was coming home, my sister wanted to buy a KFC meal so we went to their drive through just around 6th circle. As we were driving in, 3 brothers that looked 1 year a part from each other ran to us extending their hands and their mouths working with insincere prays for us to save our souls and our loved ones. Those were 7-10 year olds and they have already mastered the profession to the finest detail.

Just as I was turning towards my sister; I saw the kids’ mother lurking there in the darkness with yet another child on her arm. She wore a veil on her face and tried to come to us and started the same ritual her kids did just a minute ago.

You may wonder how I figured they were a mother and her own kids. Well; it is like “honor among thieves” concept; beggars do not cross territories and they have to be working together to be in the same area. At that hour; only a mother and her kids would be bold enough to come forward and emotionally blackmail passersby and buyers from the place they chose as their target.

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What bugged me the most is that the kids looked healthy enough to be well fed and well taken care of; it is true that their clothes were not that good but I guess it is like wearing a lab coat when you are working in the lab; what I mean to say is that their clothes are a part of the business and image. Also; the mother had a good build and was not skinny or weak; she seemed strong and healthy just like her kids were.

This is a phenomenon that is spreading widely in our society and that is not a good sign. I never ever offer money to these types and I never respond to their begging attempts because if I did, I would be encouraging them to continue taking our hard earned money by using this cheap method.

You can really tell when you see someone in real need; most of the time they don’t beg and try to sell you any small item like gum or biscuits to save their dignity and pride. I always remember the Chinese proverb when I see a beggar in the street or walking around parking lots or malls; it goes like this: Give me a fish and you have fed me for one day; teach me how to fish and you have fed me for life. It makes me feel so sad when I see these kids leaving their studies and school to learn the begging profession; they are giving up on the possibility of becoming doctors or pilots to become beggars who live off others’ hard earned money.

Next time you see a beggar, look closer to decide if he/she is genuine and then make up your minds if you want to give them money or try to make a difference by not indulging in such acts that benefit no one, especially you!

Posted on Tuesday, November 7th, 2006
Under: Community, General, Interesting, Jordan, Middle East | 1 Comment »

Mufti Al-Hilaly Explains His Theory!!!

And he does that on my blog!

A couple of days ago, I posted about the events that took place in Egypt during Eid, and I mentioned the infamous theory of uncovered meat vs. cats. Needless to say; that was an aggressive and angry post, some even accused me of generalizing against Arab men. You can interpret my ideas and points of view in any way that relates to your way of thinking, or you can try to read between the lines might you find something interesting and worth exploring, but this is besides the point here.

Anyway; one of the comments that I received on that post was signed with this name:
Sheikh Taj El-Deen El-Hilali
Mufti Of Australia

and there was a URL and an email in the comments’ form.

I was reluctant to publish this comment, because I don’t think that Sheikh Hilali wrote it himself, obviously; someone (anonymous) did that but did not mention that he was quoting a press release or even referred to a site where the release was published.

I tried to contact the commenter by email to ask him to verify his/her identity or at least give is the source of the content of his/her comment and waited for two days to receive a reply, but nothing happened. So I decided to publish the comment and quote it here so that everyone who visit this blog would get a chance to read the explanation, and at the same time give an opportunity for the commenter and anyone else to discuss or provide us with the source.

The comment was as follows:

Sheikh Taj El-Deen El-Hilali Says:
November 1st, 2006 at 12:58 pm e

Explanatory Statement by the Mufti Al-Hilaly
Regarding the Recent Media Campaign
I would like to outline clearly and plainly some of the facts and basics that formulate my faith, belief and my understanding of the teachings of the true religion of Islam:

1-The crime of rape against any woman is an abominable crime; it has no justification, and the perpetrator deserves the severest punishment and would not deserve to belong to a religion or to humanity.

2-Women in Australia or any other western society are free to wear what they like, and no Muslim has the right to dictate the rulings of his religion on others. While non-Muslim women can cover or reveal whatever they choose of their bodies, Islamic Shari’a made it incumbent upon Muslim men to lower their gaze. It is prohibited for them to stare at the beauty of strange women.

3- It is my duty as a religious leader to advise Muslim women to adhere to and abide by the Islamic dress code. Having said that, Muslim women are free to comply with or reject my advice, and their reckoning will be with Allah the Almighty.

4-By saying the “exposed meat” displayed in a degrading way is a simile for a woman, making herself subject to abuse by men with diseased souls whose animalistic instincts will overcome them whereby they would abandon their humanity, mind and religion. These men are responsible for their crime.

5-The metaphor I used of the “exposed meat” was not appropriate for the western mentality. It has been quoted and misinterpreted by some groups with ill intentions. This metaphor was used in a private lesson given inside the mosque after the Taraweeh (optional night) prayers on the fourth day of Ramadan. It was meant for the Muslim attendees at the mosque and not the general public and particularly not the general women of our Australian society.

Apart from the above-mentioned facts, I would like to make it known to all my brothers and sisters in and out of Australia that:

After the Taraweeh (optional night) prayers on 27/09/2006, at the Lakemba Mosque in Sydney, Australia, I gave a lesson to the members of the Islamic community of Australia, the title of which was: “Why did Allah, the Almighty, mention ‘man’ before ‘woman’ in the crime of theft? as is quoted in the Quran: {[As for] the thief, the male and the female, …} [Al-Ma’idah 5.38] while He mentioned ‘woman’ before ‘man’ in the crime of adultery?, as is quoted in the Quran: {The woman and the man found guilty of adultery or fornication, …} [An-Nur 24.2]”.

This lesson lasted approximately 15 minutes; 10 minutes of these were spent on explaining the meaning of the first verse, and the remaining time was spent on giving advice and guidance relating to the way a woman dresses and the methods of seduction and the beauty given to her by the Almighty Allah. I emphasised that exceeding the limits in this regard is dangerous to both men and women; and that the devil exploits these charms of seduction to tempt both men and women to commit adultery and fornication. In this case, both men and women are committing a sin. So the topic did not deal with the crime of rape.

At the end of the lesson when I was explaining the reason why ‘woman’ was mentioned before ‘man’ in the verse dealing with the crime of adultery, I said it was because she possessed the charm, the methods of seduction and all similar devices given to her by Allah to tempt the man. For that I borrowed a metaphor used by an author called Ar-Rifa’i. He said exposing the meat in an illicit way would encourage the cats to devour it. I didn’t mean by that to humiliate the immodest women; I meant to censure the person who would abandon his humanity and turn into a vicious animal; and there’s a big difference between a cat’s behaviour and that of a human’s, as the latter is commanded and responsible for their actions.

I confess that this analogy is inappropriate and unacceptable for the Australian society and the western society in general.

I am deeply saddened and distressed by the acts of some devious groups which lurk in the dark watching me, and who cannot tolerate the moderate balanced way which I adopt to advocate for women’s issues, national harmony and co-existence, and to hold fast to the love of our Australian home, to protect it from all forms of extreme thoughts and to reject all acts of violence and any act that breaches the rule of law.

Yes, I feel deeply saddened that such an ordinary lesson has been used to slander and defame me after it had been translated with the ill intention of a dubious media that wishes to incite and they present an unfair campaign, the aims of which are very well known.

Once again, I turn to all the women of Australia and the world. You are the shining lights of the world, you are more than half of the society, and you are the daughters, the sisters, the mothers and the aunts. How could any sane person think of humiliating you?

You are the cherished pearls, the dearest thing in the world. So don’t be taken as offerings at the temples of the merchants of pleasure, or advocates of decadence and corruption.

Each one of us is responsible for accounting for his or her own actions before he or she is asked about them by the almighty Allah (on the Day of Judgment). Once again I am very sorry and apologize for what resulted from an unintentional analogy.

With all my respect to the women of the world.

In due course I will take the necessary decision that shall lift the pressures that have been placed on our Australian Muslim community and that which will benefit all Australians.

The pressure of the last couple of days has had an obvious effect on my health and well-being. I ask the public to give my family and I some privacy, time and space to recover. I have also asked for indefinite leave from my duties at Lakemba mosque.

Sincerely

Sheikh Taj El-Deen El-Hilali
Mufti Of Australia

Posted on Friday, November 3rd, 2006
Under: Arabs, Around the World, General, Interesting, Islam, Men, Middle East, Women | 4 Comments »

Vote For Petra!!

Petra

On the edge of the Arabian Desert, Petra was the glittering capital of the Nabataean empire of King Aretas IV (9 B.C. to 40 A.D.). Masters of water technology, the Nabataeans provided their city with great tunnel constructions and water chambers. A theater, modelled on Greek-Roman prototypes, had space for an audience of 4,000. Today, the Palace Tombs of Petra, with the 42-meter-high Hellenistic temple facade on the El-Deir Monastery, are impressive examples of Middle Eastern culture.

In short - vote for Petra,
as it is a great symbol of
- Engineering & Protection!
For more information, click here!

Posted on Friday, November 3rd, 2006
Under: Around the World, General, Interesting, Jordan, Middle East, Pictures | 45 Comments »