Comments on: Gender Segregation in Weddings!!

By: random girl :)

random girl :) — Thu, 03 Apr 2008 16:17:30 +0000

im actually having the same problem with my fiance he wants a split i want a mixed.. he simply wants a split because most of his family is hijabi and i simply am not.. i dont see the point of a split.. when i dance il be dancen with him.. and even that he sees as haram no man will see my wife dance.. the whole problem is huge.. me personally when i dance i dont dance like a belly dancer soft movement of the arm we khalas.. i dont wanna dance hard.. because 1. itl ruin the way i look.. 2. il be sweatn like a dog.. so technically i dont want to dance.. and my dress.. i want a conservative dress because i simply dont like naky dresses i feel like there very unelegant.. again personal choice.. yet we still argue over split or mixed. to me i dont wana see naked woman i think its retarded.. y would woman want to look good for other woman.. go look good for your husband. i simply could care less if you have a huge chest.. i feel like the moms of other men go there and search for not a good bride but a sexy bride for there sons.. that turn out to be hijabis.. which to me is more haram then the concept of men being there.. people are more on there best behaviors when men are their.. some arent.. but were not responsible for everyones actions.. i think the concept of split wedding should only be ligit.. for hijabis because they want to look there best for there husband. anyone else i dont see there point of view.. y would u wanna go naky on ur wedding i mean the wedding night is a couple hours away.. and y would you want to dress up for woman.. comon now.. how gay..

i hope this didnt offend anyone

By: Rasha

Rasha — Tue, 13 Feb 2007 11:51:15 +0000

thax for coming 5o5a

And Khawaja… exactly!

By: Khawaja M.

Khawaja M. — Tue, 30 Jan 2007 19:54:17 +0000

Khalidah…. come on!

you have not solved all the reservations of mixed wedding parties when you ask the bride to be to choose a special wedding dress with a veil…

What about the dancing floor? having both men and women at the same hall means that women would dance in front of foreign men and that would be a severe breaking to religious and cultural for many conservative families!

You have been looking at the very negative side of segregated wedding. I have been discussing this issue with my friends and family since many year. I feel you forgot to mention how friends & cousins of the groom, would really enjoy to be alone make Dabkeh and express their happiness without causing embarrassment.

Same goes for veiled women; who want really prefer to be well-dressed in the weddings of their relatives but need to keep the whole respect to rules of Islam.

By: wedz

wedz — Mon, 29 Jan 2007 08:55:12 +0000

first alf mabrooook rashrosh
2nd. im with you specially in the last point, for me i cant enjoy wedding and dancing without boys around m

By: Hareega

Hareega — Sat, 27 Jan 2007 20:29:51 +0000

so in separate weddings women really wear sexy clothes so other women see them and “recommend them strongly” to their single brothers or close male relatives. OF course taking pictures is very inappropriate however plenty of pcitures are taken and are “leaked” outside!
i’m with people doing whatever they’re comfortable with, if a woman wants to dance but can’t do it if there are men around then kick the men outside and let them dance lol.

men are always boring whether in separate or mixed weddings