Good News :)
With each passing day, week, month or year, we all get our shares of good and bad news. Sometimes we are on the sad edge and other times we are on the happy one, some might argue that there is a little bit of both in each and every moment but why look for the drama when it is time to celebrate and party?
I have learned that it is best when we grasp the happy moment and enjoy it as much as we can because it does not last long, it passes us like a breeze, freshens our senses, makes us forget for a moment that life is full of worries and concerns and makes us see that with all these burdens, we still can enjoy a free minute of happiness that is well deserved.
Today; I would like to share my piece of happiness with all of you out there …
In our family; we are celebrating two different events, one that already passed and the other is about to take place at the end of the week inshallah …
As for the one that has passed; my sister has passed her comprehensive exam and ranked the first at kingdom level in her major which is marketing and she ranked the first on the 5% of students who get to continue their education at university. Now if this is not an achievement, I do not know what is!
In the period when she had her exams, she used to stay up at night to study the large number of books to be able to pass the exam. Although that I do not like the system of having to do one exam for 7 or 8 books at the same time, but I believe that she did a great job and I am so proud of her, so congratulations Nisreen
As for the event that is going to take place this weekend, it is my other sister getting married … you can imagine the amount of preparations that we are going through at this stage, be it her house and all the needed furniture, tidying up, buying accessories and new stuff … etc.
I am not much of a wedding person and people who have been following up on my blog know that I complained a few times about weddings’ atmospheres and how uninvited people show up from nowhere which reminds me of the famous movie “Wedding Crashers”, and all these ladies staring at the half dressed girls to pick brides for their sons who recently entered the marriage market, and those girls who compete on who dresses less and who dances best, and these old ladies wishing you to get married soon before you are expired and all these funny details that take place without any justifiable reason but hey; it is a wedding and that’s normal practice in our part of the world.
My sister decided not to make a big party in a hotel because she believes that this is a waste of money especially that the groom’s family insists on making a big traditional lunch (Mansaf) which will cost a lot more than a party in a 5 star hotel. I congratulate her on making this decision because all this wasted money does not make sense to me at all … but again; that’s just me.
Yesterday; I was in Mecca mall with a friend and as we were going out, I wanted to go take a look at jewelry. Damas has an outlet in the ground floor and so we entered and I told my friend that he better get some insight and practice because soon he will be here (or there) buying the ring and other stuff for the bride. We saw some wonderful diamond rings, really beautiful in cut, design and I might add price as well (pretty high) … so I was telling my friend that I don’t like the tradition of buying so many pieces of gold when you get married because in tradition, the bride’s family asks for gold in the range of 2000 or 3000 JD. This amount of money can easily get you a beautiful diamond ring that will live for generations but again; that’s only me!
Anyway; I just wanted to share the joy with you and wish my sister the best of what the world can offer in their future















August 20th, 2007 at 2:59 am
Ya3ni, call me traditional, but 3o2balek Khalida..I wish you get your diamond ring from a man who deserves you
what shall I say?I’m a firm believer in this institution I have to send you this wish
and mabrook to both your sisters!!
August 20th, 2007 at 3:26 am
Mabrook for your sister
I agree with you on all the things you said about marriage… I don’t know why people love over exagerating everything!
August 20th, 2007 at 3:35 am
Habibty Salam
When this wish comes from a friend like you, it is very much welcomed because I know that it is coming straight from the heart and because you are my friend and you know what I am waiting for … but when it comes from these old ladies, it sounds like: may Allah have mercy on your soul and send you a husband soon before you are no longer usable
Thank you honey for the wishes and you are more than welcome to join us for the parties .. please consider it an invitation,
August 20th, 2007 at 3:41 am
Sweet Roba … 3o2balek .. hehehehe
Wallah ya Roba .. it seems that everything is over exaggerated these days … marriage does top the list however
Please consider yourself invited to the party on Wednesday … I would love it if you and your mom could join us … consider it sweetie
August 20th, 2007 at 7:07 am
Alf mabrook Khalidah! and thanks for sharing your joy with us
Weddings is another story, I honestly don’t like wedding parties, not only are they a waste of money but also a major cause of headache and general annoyance
August 20th, 2007 at 8:41 am
yabayay…’usable’? God forbid your hubby-to-be is looking for a woman to use!
I’m with Salam, a diamond as big as your heart.
Your sister made a wise choice on use of finances…’qbel more women like her. See you Thursday!
August 20th, 2007 at 10:54 am
Mabrook! May you and your family enjoy the wedding despite the craziness, and may the Lord bless your sister and her husband, and give them a long life together.
I second Salam’s 3o2balek, and throw in an 3o2bali for me too, if it’s allowed.
August 20th, 2007 at 2:40 pm
Shaden,
3o2balek inti kaman
You are welcome to join the party and please come
Kinzi,
Thank you honey, I still believe in the “good things happen to those who wait” and I am waiting for my good man
Rebecca,
I will make the wish for you, inshallah 3o2balek habibty … please come to the party and enjoy with us … I am sure that you will have fun