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Two Years of Blogging Passion!!!

When I first heard the word blog, I was completely ignorant and clueless about its meaning … I did not know what to think or how to have a blog … but when I started reading more about it and discovered how easy and quick it is to create and maintain a blog … I was there in no time and here I am two years later, proud of this space and loving it as the first day I started it …

It is true that starting a blog is not that hard, but the maintenance needs a passion for writing and some spare time on your hands to keep in touch with your friends and readers … I admit that I have been under-performing lately … I just don’t know how time flies … I start my day in the morning and one thing after the other … poof … it is time to go home … how crazy is that??

I have enjoyed my two years of blogging and the most important advantage … besides speaking my mind of course … is meeting all those great people that I miss dearly and haven’t seen in a long time … I am glad that November is coming to an end because it was a crazy month by all means … so many things have happened and now it is time to cool down with December and its Eid, Christmas and holidays …

To all my friends and readers … I love you very very very much and I miss you all

Thank you for keeping up with me )

Posted on Thursday, November 29th, 2007
Under: Days of my Life, Fellow Bloggers, General, My Life | 8 Comments »

أوراق على حبل غسيل

You are all invited to take part of this event )

7abel Ghaseel

Posted on Thursday, September 6th, 2007
Under: Announcements, Arabs, Events, Fellow Bloggers, Friends, Interesting, Jordan | 5 Comments »

Spreading the Word!!

I got really very angry when I read 9 days … 9 miserable days!!

As much as I was sad for the ordeal this family had to go through, but I was also very upset because we have to do something … It does not have to be my father or brother or mother for me to speak out and do something … Hussein’s dad is our dad as well and we have to stand by them in this … so please help us by spreading the word!!

للغة العربية يرجى قراءة
هذا المقال

Posted on Monday, September 3rd, 2007
Under: Amman, Announcements, Arabs, Community, Craziness, Experiences, Fellow Bloggers, Jordan, Middle East, Rants, health | 6 Comments »

Where have I been?

The past few weeks were the craziest, with the heat and work pressure, you could say that I would have been lucky to find some time to sleep and do something for myself.

As I mentioned in my previous post, my sister got engaged and along with that came a lot of social activities both in and out of the house. My brother is also here and things are getting more hectic by the day. Work is also a very interesting front these days as we are in the process of moving from one location to another and that puts some pressure on us, but we are coping just fine as I was blessed with a great group of colleagues and my bosses are wonderful, so this kind of relieves a lot of the stress.

Me in the office
You can see from the clutter around me that I am doing a million things together (

Last week; I was invited to attend a reception at the British ambassador’s residence in celebration of Queen Elizabeth’s Birthday. I was very interested to go and that’s exactly what I did. The invitation read my name as Mr. and Mrs. Khalidah so I had to choose a Mr. Khalidah for the night and go with him to the reception. My dear friend Bashir came to my rescue and he accompanied me there and needless to say; we had a wonderful time wondering around among ministers and ambassadors and diplomats.

The reception took place in the back yard of the ambassador’s residence and I can’t begin to tell you how the police have surrounded the place and how hard it was for us to find a parking spot; my guess is that you get the picture D

Backyard

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In the Ambassador’s residence back yard … nice ha?

On another family front, we were invited on Friday to one of my favorite and best friend’s house; Kinzi. She was the perfect hostess and I am really thankful and grateful to her for having me and my family in her home and for sharing their comfort zone with us for a few hours. We chatted and discussed many things and it was one of those days that will stay with you for as long as you live and are able to go back to those details that made the day so special.

She cooked for us; both Arabic and American meals and those brownies were from heaven … I am waiting for the recipes; not that I will be doing them any time soon, but at least I will have them just in case.

My parents loved and enjoyed the experience and they talked about Kinzi, her cooking, her wonderful gentleman of a husband, her warm home, her well mannered children, her sophisticated friends and the list would go on and on … I thank you Kinzi for doing this for me … this means the world )

On Saturday; my sister celebrated her graduation from Arabic College and she was the at the top of the class in her major; Marketing. I am really proud of her and her achievements; with a limited time for studying and with all the football team training and traveling; she did a wonderful job and I congratulate her on this great performance.

Nisreen

Nisreen with Graduation gown; Mabrook my dear

My parents, my brother and his wife and my sister and her fiancé went to the graduation and my baby sitting days were back for a few hours. I had to watch over my nephews and I have got to say that this task really became harder with time or maybe it is fair to say that we develop less tolerance for kids as we grow older and don’t have ones of our own; maybe we just don’t get kids’ behavior!!

There you have it; that’s where I was the past period and by the way; I got invited by the German embassy to attend a workshop for bloggers and I am expecting to have a good time; it has been a while since I have seen so many people from those who will be there, so stay tuned for more after this one is over )

Posted on Monday, June 25th, 2007
Under: Amman, Days of my Life, Family, Fellow Bloggers, Friends, Middle East, My Life | 8 Comments »

Second JB Meeting

* JB 2nd Meeting:
* Day: Saturday
* Date: March, 24th, 2007
* Time: 6:00 P.M. - 10:00 P.M.
* Place:**UPDATE**Louganos Coffee Shop - Abdoun Circle Area - Tel:5930073**UPDATE**
* Cover Charge: JD 5 per person
* Email jordanblogs.net@gmail.com to RSVP

You are all invited but please confirm your attendance ahead of time )

Posted on Wednesday, March 21st, 2007
Under: Amman, Announcements, Fellow Bloggers, Friends, Jordan Blogs | 8 Comments »

Another aggregator is shut up!!

Before I say anything, I am publishing Khaled’s message here:

Statement

On December 30th 2006 when Jordan Planet decided to shut down, it took me 24 hours to come up with an alternative portal in a genuine attempt to keep all Jordanian Blogs together. And although I’m going through a major step in my life, I gave Jordan Blogs a lot of my effort, time and money. It was all for the spirit of keeping us together in one spot.
Lately, I have been battling issues with certain Blogs, some that has to do with politics and some with morals.
Anyone can raise the flag of “Freedom of Speech” but I for one usually look into matters and don’t take it for granted. I think “Freedom of Speech” was created to help the weak, and never to promote hate speech or immoral issues. OK, I admit my mistake in not having a clear policy, but again I started this on my own and when established a committee and assigned tasks, people have jobs and lives outside the blogsphere, so things take time. I have no problem with someone criticizing the government, religion or anybody for that matter. I do have issue with somebody slandering and throwing stones without offering a real solution. When it comes to morals, if you are going to post X rated materials, you are banned from JB regardless you put a disclaimer or not.

And today I find out that I’m being crowned as the enemy of “freedom of Speech” side to side with the Egyptian government. Well, frankly, it is not worth my time or effort. I never planned for this, when I started JB I did not think things will get to this. So as a result, I would like to see about closing JB. If you guys want this to stay rolling till Jordan Planet comes back, fine! And I will release the committee from its responsibility. If not I will just shut it down, and you guys can use other aggregators.
Salam and God Bless,

Khaled

Ever since JP was paused, Khaled has stepped up and took it upon himself to provide Jordanian bloggers with a substitute solution. Single handedly; he built it up and had it running without even being asked to do so. The level of proactivity and initiative he showed is admirable and must be respected.

The main concern was to get the aggregator up and running to give everyone access to their favorite blogs and not lose their daily input and read. This was more important than setting up a policy or a committee but that was not far to follow. Khaled recruited a diverse group of bloggers to give objectivity to decisions and actions taken and I believe that the group was reasonable and mature enough to be in the position they were in.

We all have avoided discussing this issue on our blogs because Khaled spoke on our behalf when it came to JB and that’s how harmonized the committee was, and when we were faced with the case of blog deletion, we were all supportive of the committee’s decisions and actions because that is the way things should go.

We read on many blogs how everyone was confusing moderation with censorship. Khaled said it best when he said that slandering and hate speech is not categorized under freedom of speech and this is a general rule in the whole world. There are limits and there comes a time when some cross the line, therefore; action was taken. It was not a sole decision; we all voted and the result of the voting drove the action. No one was manipulated into his/her vote; we were all free and responsible and that’s how it went.

We could have continued to ignore all the campaigns and motions to classify us as enemies of freedom of speech because we know better and the majority of the blogosphere knows better, but to be compared to and resembled to the Egyptian government in the case of Kareem, now that was over the top and no one can put up with this.

We are not the government, we did not stop anyone from writing or saying whatever they want to say on their own spaces, we did not delete their posts or moderate them, we did not persecute them legally, we did not threaten them to delete and take back what they said or else, we did not do any of those things. What we did is that we took a stand and agreed that we are not going to promote hate speech and slander no matter who it was directed against, we took a stand and agreed that we are not going to promote X rated material on JB, we agreed that we are not going to create a war with these bloggers by telling them what to do with their blogs because that would have been censorship. Instead; we elected to quietly stop the feed and move on just like any newspaper or publishing house elects who to publish for and who to promote for.

We were bending our time and schedules to meet online and try to organize things the right way, we were about to publish the policy and refer everyone to it to get out of these situations, but we were not given the time by our dear friends the bloggers, therefore; I respect and support what Khaled is doing and I think that when you do something for the people, the least you should expect is some appreciation to the effort, time and dedication in the least. When this is not there; I think it is not worth it to begin with!

Posted on Friday, February 23rd, 2007
Under: Arabs, Community, Craziness, Experiences, Fellow Bloggers, Jordan, Middle East, Rants | 17 Comments »

First JB Meeting!

On the rainy evening of last Thursday, a group of JB bloggers met for a warm nice time at the Graphic Club in Sweifieh.

Although more than 27 people have confirmed their attendance, only a handful appeared that night and it was a great meeting. We had a chance to talk, laugh, take pictures, discuss serious matters and even sing Abed a nice Happy Birthday song.

Another good thing was that I found some nice books and made sure I bought them on my way out. I will leave you with some of the pictures of that lovely evening and looking forward to see all those who could not make it this time in the next meeting.

 

 

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Manal (Red Rose) and Muoffaq (MQabbani Minds Talk)

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Daniella and Eyad (Proactivity Group)

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Manal (Red Rose) + 7ala (Ro2a) + Shaden (Sugar Cubes) + Wedad (Better Life)

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Roba’s Cousin and Brothers (It was really great to see you guys)

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Roba (And Far Away)

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Posted on Saturday, February 17th, 2007
Under: Amman, Arabs, Books, Days of my Life, Fellow Bloggers, Interesting | 18 Comments »

Cookies, Friends, Valentine’s Day, Work and Internet!!

I guess it is no secret to everyone that I am too busy to blog and keep up with other blogs these days. I have been too darn busy ever since I started this new job, not that I am complaining because I like what I do, but I truly and utterly miss the blogosphere, and that’s why I keep coming back every now and then and I hope I will always find you there waiting for me … so please don’t give up on me just yet; there is still hope!!

Last week was a killer, with the conference and all those guests, for three days I came home around midnight and then had to be at work the next day at 8 in the morning; by the end of the week I was a wreck, but that did not stop me from sharing a lovely cookie party with my friends at Mommabeans house. That was one warm evening where we shared lots of fun, food and laughter.

The highlight of that evening was meeting teta bean, Madam Laila!
Such a warm nice lady who was extremely welcoming of all of us and said that she was a regular reader of our blogs; I had to take a picture to memorize this moment for years to come … thank you so much Madam for your kindness and follow-up to our blogs, please keep coming back!

Tetabean

Then we got some creativity out, but I was really too drained to do more than a couple and I learned that Jujubean enjoyed my duck and I say Sa7tein!!

Cookies 1

Cookies 2

Cookies 3

Cookies 4

Cookies 5

Now, Valentine’s Day is around the corner and everything is already turning red … sometimes I see it as a silly occasion but other times I just feel jealous of all the love and lovers around and feel sad for being alone … eh! It is only one day in the year and it will eventually pass )

Work has been really hectic and I have been running around … looking at the bright side; everything went according to the plan during the conference, my boss is happy and most importantly; the guests had a wonderful time and they all enjoyed their few days in Amman.

Internet is evolving and everyday there is some new technology or software appearing here and there. I wonder how we used to live and do things some years back; how did we manage without all this technology around us. Can we afford to choose not to enslave ourselves to this technology? Can we turn our backs and say we can do without? I wish we could be professional enough to trust people with their own time instead of regulating their days for them; this is the 21st century after all!!

Posted on Monday, February 12th, 2007
Under: Community, Craziness, Days of my Life, Fellow Bloggers, Food, Friends, Inspiring, My Life, Pictures, Women | 7 Comments »

Why we should vote for Petra!!!

I followed a very interesting debate yesterday on Qwaider’s blog. Qwaider is convinced that Petra is a great and magnificent place and is actually a world wonder, yet; he is advocating that we as Jordanians must not be dragged to hysterical voting for Petra just like we did for Diana Karazon when she was competing for the Super Star title.

On the other hand, Hamzeh N debated this theory by explaining that voting for Petra is actually a national duty because it creates an opportunity for Petra and Jordan to be recognized by the World.

As much as I wanted to get into the debate to support Hamzeh’s argument; I knew better not to because me and Qwaider have a history in debates that go no where and I know that he is stubborn and will not agree on my view no matter how hard I tried so I decided to post about it on my blog as that’s safer ) … no hard feelings Q )

Let’s look at the whole thing from a different angle; what exactly is the history of naming 7 places as the World Wonders?

According to Wikipedia;

The earliest extant version of the list was compiled by Antipater of Sidon, who listed the structures in a poem around 140 BC:
“I have set eyes on the wall of lofty Babylon on which is a road for chariots, and the statue of Zeus by the Alpheus, and the hanging gardens, and the Colossus of the Sun, and the huge labour of the high pyramids, and the vast tomb of Mausolus; but when I saw the house of Artemis that mounted to the clouds, those other marvels lost their brilliancy, and I said, ‘Lo, apart from Olympus, the Sun never looked on aught so grand.’” (Antipater, Greek Anthology IX.58)

There were some earlier lists but they did not survive.

7 Wonders

The Seven Wonders of the World (from left to right, top to bottom): Great Pyramid of Giza, Hanging Gardens of Babylon, Temple of Artemis, Statue of Zeus at Olympia, Mausoleum of Maussollos, Colossus of Rhodes and the Lighthouse of Alexandria.

Why were there only seven wonders you ask?
Well, there is no specific reason, although the number “seven” appears in many aspects of mythology and religion. People always talk about the seven gates of heaven, the seven days of the week, and the seven seas. It appears this number is somehow embedded in Mediterranean and Middle Eastern tradition and history.

The reason I am writing about this is that the first, second, …, and maybe 100th lists of the 7 wonders of the world were created by people; architects or historians; they were still people. The new list that is being created now is also done by people, but the only difference is that instead of one or two people deciding which places should make the list; the opportunity is opened for every single person in this world to participate in the process, so why would we stand by and leave it for others to decide for us while our Petra deserves to be there on the list?

Whether you build your choice on national or patriotic duties, or on the fact that you have visited one of these places and believe that it should be on the list, it is really irrelevant. What matters here is that we all have the chance to participate in marking 7 places in the world on the map and declare them as destinations for tourists. The Greek category was not “Wonders” but “theamata”— closer to “must-sees”.

Now, only 7 places will be named wonders or “must-sees”. This does not mean that the rest of candidates will be ditched from the wonder or “must-see” catergory; it just means that the 7 winners will get more exposure and attention; in other words; better opportunities.

Qwaider has set an example in the American Idol or SuperStar competitions, and he named Diana Karazon, the first Arab SuperStar, or as he called it, the Karazonism phenomenon. No one denies that Diana has a great voice, in fact; she has one of the most beautiful voices I have ever heard and that made her the most eligible to win the competition and not only because we as Jordanians have drowned in the voting craze to prove that we are better. I am sure that she got a large number of votes from non-Jordanians as well as Jordanians.

Now, let me continue with this example; what did it mean for Diana to win the competition? Not only that she won the title, but also; she was given the opportunity to record the first album with songs done by the greatest writers and musicians; now how did this hurt her exactly? Despite that there were other beautiful voices in the competition, ones that actually deserved the title as well as Diana, but she was the one who was given the golden opportunity.

Although I believe that this example is not qualified to be brought in a debate about Petra, but I went along with it because it was already used.

Back to Petra; millions of people around the world know nothing about Jordan, and if and when they do, it will not be about what a wonderful great country it is, but that it is in the danger zone called Middle East. Now, what would happen if Petra won as one of the wonders? Come on; close your eyes and let’s imagine the ceremony, the publicity, the news, the advertising campaigns, the blogs and websites that will talk about this event. Now tell me, how is this going to be bad for the ordinary Jordanian like you and me? How will that harm us as everyday citizens and reflect negatively on us?

I will tell you what happens; those who did not know that Jordan exists will do, those who knew that Jordan is in the Middle East will understand better that we are actually a beautiful country with nice places to visit and see, whenever someone is reading and studying about the new 7 wonders of the world, the name Jordan will be there; this is what we call viral marketing, and we do not have to pay anything to gain such publicity.

We keep urging people to use their right to vote. During the parliament elections; all candidates pay tons of money on advertising and publicity campaigns and when they are actually elected and are comfortably seated on the chair they so craved; what happens to or reflects on the ordinary people who voted for them? … you go it; NOTHING!!!

In Petra’s case; declaring this magnificent national treasure as one of the 7 wonders of the world will reflect on the whole country; image and economy wise. So do I see voting for Petra a patriotic duty; you bet!!

When I first learned about this competition, I posted about it on my blog. In fact; this is the fourth time I post about the issue and I was waiting impatiently for the concerned parties to take action and advertise this to the people and urge them to vote. Now that it happened; I am all for it and I urge everyone to vote for Petra and it does make a difference.

So go on everyone; vote Jordan by voting for Petra!!

Posted on Saturday, January 20th, 2007
Under: Amman, Around the World, Fellow Bloggers, Friends, General, Inspiring, Jordan, Middle East, Thoughts on my mind | 44 Comments »

Can you make a difference???

I have received an email this morning from a friend of mine requesting help for a fellow human with a real tragic story. I believe in my heart that we can do something to help by extending a hand and spreading the word, so please read on …

Dear friends,

I’m writing you in regards to the email below from Father Kevin, the
priest of the English-Language Parish in Amman. One of the things that
I value in this church is its call to social action and part of that
is helping those who do not have any other means of support. In
regards to the situation outlined below, Father Kevin has gone to a
number of organisations but as he has found, while there are funds to
help Iraqis, Palestinians and others of Arab descent, this isn’t the
case when it comes to situations where Filipinos, Sri Lankans or
Sudanese get into a bind.

I know that we all have our own call to service where we expend our
resources (time and/or money), but if you are moved to help this one
individual with a donation of JD5-JD10, I believe that in numbers, we
can help this woman.

Feel free to contact Father Kevin directly or to reply to this message.

All my best,

This email was sent to my friend:

As I mentioned to you on the phone, I have been approached by the
actiing Labor Attache at the Philippine Embassy for assitance
concerning a Filipina, Maria Paz Facturan, who had been hospitalized
at the Italian Hospital for the past 3 weeks, since 23 December 2006.
Maria is 35 years old & has been in Jordan for more than 6 years, but
without a permanent job, & her income supports her son.

She went to the Italian Hospital complaining of severe stomach
pains (either from an ulcer or cancer), & the hospital staff judged
that her situation was severe enough to warrant immediate surgery,
which was performed the same day. I have spoken to Maria on the phone.
She is ready to be discharged, but she cannot be released from the
hospital until her outstanding bills are covered, or at least until
payment is reliably guaranteed. The acting labor attache told me that
Maria’s estimated total bill is between $2,500 & $3,500. I believe the
hospital has given her some reduction (probably from the fund
established by the Comboni Sisters to aid needy patients), but I was
told that she needs at least JD1,400 to cover the balance of her bill.
Each day that she remains hospitalize, her bills increase. I plan to
contact the hospital administrator as soon as possible after the
weekend to get an official statement of Maria’s situation & the amount
of her unpaid bill.

The labor attache told me that Maria had requested help from the
Philippine Embassy and from the Philippine Overseas Labor Organization
(POLO), but these entities do not have resources to help her,
especially since they are significantly over budget for the
maintenance of some 174 wards in the hostel that is maintained for
distressed Filipinas by the Philippine Embassy & the Philippine
Government’s Overseas Workers Welfare Association (OWWA).

I currently celebrate Mass weekly for residents at the OWWA
hostel, & I am acutely aware of the difficult circumstances under
which the residents are housed there, pending resolution of their
various cases or problems. In fact, during the past few months, I have
raised a total of JD 1,600 to purchase 61 mattresses (for residents
who had been sleeping on cardboard on bare floors, due to lack of
beds) & 120 blankets, as well as a further JD 731.350 to supplement a
major year-end shortfall in the hostel’s 2006 food budget (which had
been projected for only around 75 residents during 2006, rather than
the current 174 residents).

At present, the English-Language Parish has only about JD100
available to help with Maria’s medical crisis, & the acting Labor
Attache personally pledged a further JD 35 from his next salary
payment. I am intending to take special collections to help with
Maria’s medical expenses at all the parish Masses this weekend; the
collection at Friday noon’s Mass at Jabal Al-Weibdeh brought in JD
124.645 (for a total of about JD 260 so far). I hope to raise a
further JD 350 to JD 500 at the Saturday evening & 2 Sunday Masses
this weekend.

Given these factors, especially the importance of getting Maria
released very soon (so that the hospital bill will not continue to
grow), I am writing to ask for your advice & assistance in meeting
this new crisis. I will be most grateful for any guidance or
assistance you may be able to provide.

Cordially,
Fr Kevin
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Kevin G. O’Connell, S.J.
The Jesuit Center, Amman, Jordan
– Office Phone: +962 (6) 461-4190
– Cell Phone: +962 (79) 556-5062
– Fax: +962 (6) 461-1315
E-Mail: kgoc@jesuits.jo or oconnksj@bc.edu
Parish URL: www.wfu.edu/~horton/amman

Please feel free to make a direct contact with Father Kevin and spread the word to your friends!!

Posted on Sunday, January 14th, 2007
Under: Amman, Around the World, Community, Fellow Bloggers, Friends, General, VIVA | 2 Comments »